Okay don't laugh. But I wrote a post for Twiniversity on teaching toddlers to learn self-control. No these are not my ideas, they are from the brilliant team of therapists that help our little E, but I can say they work.
In fact, just yesterday I was on the brink of tears trying to get the girls to listen and I started whispering, as suggested in the blog post, AND IT WORKED. Not joking. If it worked for me, it will work for you.
And with that, click here to read the post.